scarredangel |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Tue Mar 17, 2009 22:57
My Ex-Husband pushed it on me. The best mistake he ever made. She was an a little older and experienced. |
scarredangel |
topic: boys and girls
posted: Tue Mar 17, 2009 22:54
I also like bad boy types in men. They have to look like they can do bad things to me. Not necessarily be a certain body type. I like women that are soft and sexy. I love just about everything about a womans body. I like a man with a hairy chest and women without any hair anywhere. |
andypants |
topic: Pin-ups
posted: Tue Nov 13, 2007 12:47
ive never seen one, but ive heard of them.. i actually had a girl ask me not too long ago if i would be the model for her "pin-up boy" but havent heard from her in a while... but they are out there.. |
derangdinsanity |
topic: Pin-ups
posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 17:04
I haven't, then again have you ever heard of pin-up guys. I'm not too sure they ever existed, or at least not like girls did.
I think it's time to start something... |
sinawava |
topic: Pin-ups
posted: Fri Nov 09, 2007 16:41
Pin-up girls are a big thing in tattoos, but has anyone seen tattooed pin-up guys? :-) |
la69holes |
topic: What is your view!!!
posted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 01:58
Good People
I found these quotes & was wondering... if you remove the genders would this not apply to people in general?
Males do not represent two discrete populations, heterosexual and homosexual. The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats. Not all things are black nor all things white: Alfred C. Kinsey
The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform: Alfred C. Kinsey
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wisconsinchic |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Wed May 23, 2007 17:08
I started with girls WAY before I started with Boys and still love them both. Depending on the drama level I am up for depends on which sex I date. |
inkedforlife23 |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Tue May 08, 2007 16:38
hey i got started with guys when i was in the shower after a basketball game in high school he came up to me smacked me in the ass and we got down lol but i love girls more so much more |
india |
topic: boys and girls
posted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 18:07
Just joined this group - kind of feel as tho i've crashed a party. Am in the kind of ex confused camp, as i couldn't really process the increased attraction i started having toward girls until recently. Mostly i love guys who are typically bad boy looking - cliche i know. My taste in girls tends to be more varied. Not particularly attracted to overly butch girls though. Need to feel as tho i am actually kissing a girl - i mean, that's the point! Now that i am divorced i would like to experience more intimacy with girls. |
derangdinsanity |
topic: boys and girls
posted: Sat Mar 24, 2007 16:37
I don't usually go for looks, but I'm generally attracted different with guys than I am to girls. With girls, I tend to like girls that aren't cuacasian whereas with guys I tend to go for white guys. But commonly, in both genders, I more likely go for those that aren't skinny or slender. Although I must say, with girls I do prefer them to be shorter than me, even though I'm quite short myself. And I'm gonna stop rambling now before I make even less sense than I already am. |
draylih |
topic: boys and girls
posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 01:19
i find it alot easier to define physical attributes i find sexy in a man (v. masculine, strong usually creative who are in trade- trashy i know) , though it definatley differs, my current boy's not v masc. but he's still v creative. With girls i love feminine or masculine, but there has to be something inherentley WOMAN in them- by that i dont mean feminine i mean "hear me roar"ish. i guess i like curvy girls but... yeah what about you?? |
la69holes |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 03:07
Well I experimented at a very young age but never made anything else of it.
I was dating this girl & her moms best friend sort of took advantage fo me which really freaked me out cause I was still young & didnt know any better.
A copuple of years later things just panned out. I met this guy that was very cool & allowed me to experiance thing I never though possible. I did sort of drop of the face of the earth after that cause I was unsure of myself & what I wanted. I am now happy with who I am & my own sexuality. I now take a hedonistic approach to pleasure & what pleasure I get LOL |
la69holes |
topic: boys and girls
posted: Sat Mar 10, 2007 02:25
sterio typing people would not work because it would all depend on the person & not what they look like? Right or wrong??? |
arcadia48 |
topic: boys and girls
posted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 23:07
just throwing some discussion topics out. when you are attracted to different things depending on whether the other person is a boy or girl? or do you look for the same things? (aka do you look for very manly men and very feminine women or like to take a lead role with men and a let the women 'wear the pant'? or is it all equal? im just a lil bored and thought this would be an interesting discussion! |
megamiwa21 |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 14:39
when i was the 8th grade i had a very close friend of 8yrs. she and i were butt buddies! we did everything together until she told me she was keeping a secret and was afraid to tell me. i told her if she couldnt trust me then what was the point being friends. after about two months of not talking i relized that i really loved her and really wanted her to be in my life. i contacted her and asked her to spend the weekend with me so we could patch things up. when she finally worked up the nerver to tell me her secert i was shocked. she told me she had a crush on me and couldnt be around me if she couldnt be with me. i didnt respond. i was scared to admit my feelings. we had dinner and went to see a movie. in the dark of the theater i kissed her. i told her i wasnt ready to make this public, but i wanted her the way she did me. the rest is history |
megamiwa21 |
topic: question...
posted: Thu Jan 25, 2007 14:29
i have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. when we started dating i was pretty much looking for a f*** buddy, but it developed into more. i told him up front that i am bisexual and he never had a problem! how lucky am i! i have someone who loves me enough to let me be me without restrictions. you should consider yourself lucky to have the same. i have yet to find a female who is so understanding, but hopefully i will :) |
redflygrrrl |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Mon Oct 30, 2006 14:44
I've been bisexual since before I hit puberty... I remember being 7 years old and having a crush on my friend Pete's mom goooorrrgeous mom sylvia, but also having a crush on one of the neighborhood boys. I "experimented" with a female friend for the first time when I was 12 or so, and came out as bi when I was 14. I'll be 21 in January, and my mother *still* says it a phase. My husband is accepting, though not totally sure about the whole thing. |
redflygrrrl |
topic: question...
posted: Mon Oct 30, 2006 14:40
well, my hubby has said that sometime we might be able to think about having another female around, but it would be so hard to see another woman touching mine. Now, I'm not jealous, but I am territorial. What is mine is MINE, and that's the way that is, I don't know if I could handle that. |
stephanie01 |
topic: question...
posted: Sun Oct 15, 2006 19:49
so I just starting seeing someone and he knows I like girls too and asked me if I would ever have a threesome with him and another girl. I never have had a threesome, but he has. Have others had much experience with this? I'm afraid of getting jealous with sharing him, I'd rather we see other people on the side until we're ready to be monogomous and then I can't imagine sharing someone I love. He said I wouldn't be sharing him emotionally. What do I tell him? If I do it, do you think he'll expect it for years to come? He says he's looking for someone to settle down and get married with. I almost think I'd be more comfortable with two guys or two girls at once, but that's not what he's asking for. |
moli |
topic: question...
posted: Sat Sep 09, 2006 17:18
My boyfriend said the same thing. We were talking about finding a girl for a threesome, and he then said that if it didn't work out and we couldn't find one, I could find one for myself if I wanted.
Then last wednsday my party turned into something that could well lead into an orgy, but then we went downtown. There were 9 girls + my bf. He enjoyed it, and I thought it was seriously hawt seeing him kiss the girls, especially one of them. I've had a serious crush on her for years. |
catalyticat |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 22:07
I always had an attraction to girls for as long as I can remember. It was a kind of idolizing of them... like I could never be like them or lucky enough to be their "friend." (mentality of a lil girl in 1st grade).
I started experimenting with girls long before guys. We didn't label ourselves as "bi" or "lesbians", we were just beginning to explore our sexuality back in 5th/6th grade.
A few years later, the girl I had the most experience with got upset with me & told everyone in school my orientation (the worst thing that you could possibly imagine happening to you at the age, right?) Yeah, so not good in a christian private school!
This event pretty much ruined my bisexual tendencies for a LONG time... since I got so much shit for it, I just decided to suppress the urges. I ended up transferring to another middle school by 8th grade & kept it under wraps throughout high school & the first few years of college.
It wasn't until I got with the b/f i'm with now that the subject came up again. He caught me checkin other chicks out & called me out!!
I bowed my head & appologized... to my surprise he was cool with it! He even treated me to my first night out in a strip club the next weekend!!! We have a great time pointing hot chicks out to one another wherever we go. Just recently have I released the chains of torment... I'm FREE & loving it!!! |
lilmissunruly |
topic: question...
posted: Thu Jun 29, 2006 02:47
yeah, he knows that i'm not into threesomes or really even comfortable with him watching since i'm a bit selfconcious. and he said he's fine with it, i still dont know what to think about it though, i dont mind knowing that he's fine w/ my orientation and its just knowing that if i want to do anything with another woman or have a g/f thats throwing me off a bit. |
xzanthia |
topic: 26 – F – Denver/Tampa….
posted: Fri Jun 23, 2006 21:57
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urgirlyesterday |
topic: question...
posted: Wed Jun 14, 2006 17:01
All I have to say is be careful!! My ex boyfriend said it was ok for me to have a girlfriend 'cause he also just wanted me to be happy. I was totally shocked, but I thought it was really kewl of him to want my happiness. Unfortunately what he really wanted was a threesome! So he and I are no longer together....I don't mind a threesome everynow and then, but if I like you enough to commit to you, I'd be damned before I let another girl (even if she is my gf) touch you!! LoL! |
lilmissunruly |
topic: question...
posted: Wed May 24, 2006 21:15
Ok, I just started dating a guy who is totally fine with me being bi, and he told me recently that if I wanted to have a girlfriend that I could. This completely boggled my mind since other guys that I have dated said that it would be cheating, but my current boyfriend said that he just wants me to be happy and if that means having a girlfriend, then I should find myself one. But my question is has anyone else had a signifigant other tell them that and how did you react? |
nwnursie |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Sun May 07, 2006 10:35
I was 14 and discovered that my best friend was well more than a best friend. We had several very sexy encounters, horseback riding, in the gym shower, etc. Then got married and for 20 years, nada (save a few stolen kisses in bars), ex hubby did not approve. After my divorce at 37 I had a g/f for a while and we had many good times together.
Sooooo now that I'm 42 trying to find someone is next to impossible! My b/f is bi and I would love to have a g/f again. |
lilmissunruly |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Fri May 05, 2006 15:48
lol yup... thats my theory. but me and him are working on being friends at least. |
lilmissunruly |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Wed May 03, 2006 15:10
>that's a bit harsh isn't it? I mean you were with him, ultimately you were the same person. It wasn't something that would dramatically effect your relationship with him. I don;t get that response.
yeah.... well he was a bit of an ass towards me, which is why i left him. and believe me, my jaw hit the desk when he told me that. |
lilmissunruly |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Fri Apr 28, 2006 21:57
ok... even though this topic's been kinda old for a few days... gonna post anyways. i've always been attracted to girls as well as guys as long as i can remember. and since the general opinion of bi/gay/lesbians in my school wasnt that high of one, i kept to myself about it and didnt want to admit it. but i came out to my now ex-boyfriend a few months ago and he basically gave me the ultimatum of "if you're going to be with me you're not going to be bi." which is a crock if you think about it, since you shouldnt change who you are and who you're attracted to for anyone. but the first kiss i had with another girl was just amazing and it felt right. but i'm rambling... so i'll stop. |
ashleyshyd |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Mon Apr 10, 2006 15:48
hahaha, I agree with you....I get offers all the time from chicks that wanna hook up but....there not "my type" if ya know what I mean....hahahah. |
ashleyshyd |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Sun Apr 09, 2006 23:16
Hmm, well I guess I really havnt started yet...
Ive made out with some girls, but nothing big. Right now im looking for chicks to play with....I really wanna try it out.
Ashley |
derangdinsanity |
topic: How did you get started?
posted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 14:25
Well, I had always found men attractive and i just thought whatever, its normal. After i got older i realized it wasn't "normal", but i thought i probably couldn't bring myself to do anything sexual with a guy so i just stopped thinking about it. After a few more years, the few months before i turned 18 i realized i definitly could do something sexual with a guy. And i think you can guess what happened from there. |
