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| Tuesday, June 23 2009 03:35 PM |
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My Father... |
JUNE 15, 2009
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I'll start off by saying I love my father to death. He's a great father. But lately, with in the past few months, he has not been the father that I knew. The father that I knew wouldn't have missed his only son's graduation. He wouldn't have made him cry by not showing up. He would have called his only daughter on her 22nd birthday. He wouldn't have made her wait by the phone all day for a call that would never come. He would have found a way to be in his daughter's wedding and not leave before photos were taken. The father I knew wouldn't have disappointing his daughter 3 times in the past 3 months.
I see a changing father. A father who's growing away from his children. One that will be grown so far apart, he won't even be in his children's life anymore. I see a father who takes notice to his step-children instead of his own children. I don't see the father I knew anymore.
I'm just wonder, what will the next disappointment be? Will he miss my college graduation? Will he miss my brother's college graduation? Will he never call for my or my brother's birthday anymore? Or will he continue to always disappoint us?
I think I should stop looking for non-disappoint. Maybe that way the next disappointment won't hurt as bad :-/ I wish it wasn't like this.
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evilnick
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 Posted: Thu Jun 25, 2009 15:45 |
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I kinda know how you feel but in my case it was a Grandfather. He had kids, remarried, then had more kids. They were treated different. Then the grandkids came. I don't ever remember seeing him or even getting a card from him on birthdays or christmas. He never visited us, we always had to go to him and he acted like we weren't there. Then the new grandkids came and they got everything and he was always talking about them. And now my dad wonders why I don't visit my grandfather since he is older.
Maybe you need to have a sit down with him. It usually works when my dad and I have problems. Good Luck. |
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moreira
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| Posted: Tue Jun 23, 2009 18:41 |
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what a talk with your dad is the only thing u can do for now u dont really know what he is going true men went they get to some age they go true some changes trsut me i know life itself is a desapoiment to all of us.. at kist you had a father to remember and to have good memories..my father walk away went i was 7 and never look back that had push me to be a better father to my 3 boys wich one of them is 23 already...have a talk with him
and i hope everything works out
marlon |
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